The majority of men are assured, that it should be shown a penis as any woman should fall in delight on a back, moving apart legs and scattering hands pending mute pleasure. Look - how many patiences, forces, tenderness, skilfulness it is required to finish the woman to the maximum point.
Began all as a rule traditionally, that is with men. And then, in process of disclosing sexuality, tried already all variants - with everybody, when necessary and anywhere. The main aspiration - to be rained kisses, licked, fucked. If beside there is no worthy member, will descend toy in hands of the skilful girl-friend.